Very honest, discreet, safe and disease free. Please be the same. I am happily married and looking for sex and friendship. Not looking for a relationship. We have enjoyed this lifestyle since 1995. We have had 3somes with men and I also meet 1 on 1. However, we do prefer 3somes. I am also bi-sexual and looking for a woman or couple for that friends with benefits relationship. My husband does not join in with me and other women, by his choice. He has no desire to be with another woman. I also love my toys and am very sexually driven, I can't seem to get enough. I am a very laid back, openminded person.