I am on the heavier side. I love life and all it has to offer. I enjoy unemotional, no strings attached, safe, erotic, dominat sex with both men and women. The main thing I am looking for is a descreet relationship. I live with a man who I am not happy with nor will I leave him. So this makes it a little difficult to arrange meetings but they do happen. Although , if you cant spring for a motel, then i am not interested. Car sex isnt my style.